2011年1月2日星期日

eMail Order Wives  

eMail Order Wives
Article by Charles Lamm




A middle-class American male with a job can woo and win a Russian mail order wife with a beauty and grace he could never find at home.Even for the wealthiest American men, marrying a Russian or Brazilian woman with model attractiveness and professional education is rather easy. The Web has simplified the method of finding a bride who is younger, taller, prettier, smarter, sexier, and better-educated than one can attract at home.The Web lets anyone search through hundreds of thousands of potential brides in seconds - no matter wherever she is in the world.Although I believe this to be the golden era of email order brides - and not a way for nerdy or cruel males to exploit disadvantaged or docile women - I think the opening will be dying inside 5 to 10 years.Reasons why:1. OilGovernments hide the ball when it comes to oil reserves, peak oil, and future prices for gasoline. We can't determing how high costs will go.Electrical power can be generated for your residence or electric car from photo voltaic, wind, or geothermal resources, but airplanes need aviation fuel. Lots of it.Worldwide travel by passenger jet may well become extremely expensive and out of the grasp of a average man searching for a mail order bride.2. International Marriage Broker Regulation Act of 2005 (IMBRA)The International Marriage Broker Regulation Act of 2005 (IMBRA) requires background checks on American men looking to file immigrant or fiancee visa petitions for foreign women - if they initiated contact through an international marriage agency.Marriage agencies with over 50% U.S. clients are exempt from IMBRA.An International Marriage Broker (IMB) is an agent or agency - U.S. or foreign headquartered - that provides matchmaking or social referrals connecting U.S. citizens/permanent residents and foreign nationals for a fee.Passed in the wake of the Anastasia King murder allegedly to protect foreign brides, all it does is take away privacy, free speech, and freedom of assembly from American men.International Marriage Brokers are required to:- search U.S. sex offender public registries for information on the U.S. clients- collect criminal and marital background information on the American man, including how prior marriages ended- provide this information to the foreign bride in her native language- provide foreign fiancees with a government produced pamphlet describing her legal rights in the U.S.- obtain the foreign client's signed consent to release her personal information to the U.S. client- limit of 2 fiance(e) visa petitions with at least 2 years between filingsAll of these restrictions apply to IMB prearranged matches, so there are many ways around the law. Just don't assume this will be the final piece of insane legislation to limit liberty of American citizens.Since passage of IMBRA, foreign brides have been murdered - by husbands who met their wives via exempt agencies.Unless you take measures to protect yourself, as an American man looking for a mail order bride, your efforts to bring in a foreign fiance(e) can be hindered.No state investigates American men for disclosure to American women prior to issuance of a marriage license. And there exists that pesky Constitution (what's still enforced). Noble intentions make bad law. And I'm not even certain of the good intentions in the case of IMBRA.If the courts uphold same-sex marriage, expect spousal and fiance(e) petitions to be restricted further.Find your Russian, Ukrainian, or Latvian mail order wife before it turns into an unfeasible ordeal.3. American Men Still a CatchFor thousands of foreign women, American husbands are nevertheless considered a good catch and a favorable match. Go figure.I'm not certain if I am pleased or frightened.Many foreign women view American men as better husband material, and not only on a financial level. Hollywood movies showing women's equality inside marriage and relationships have no doubt contributed to the perceptions.After a pair of divorces, I have become more jaded concerning marriage. As an alternative of falling into a relationship, why not hunt for precisely what you want without neighborhood fix-ups or sorting through women in bars.My recommendations:For more youthful men, girls from Russia, the Ukraine, and the former Soviet Republics, are the sexiest and most desirable females on the planet. Only make contact with women who meet all of your superficial requirements - age, beauty, education. You will have to get together in person to see if the chemistry is there and if love develops.Caveat - keep an eye on the age differences. For Russian women, a 10 to 15 year age difference should not be an issue. A larger age difference could be risky.For mature or more conventional men, nothing tops the Philippines. Filipinas are the most devout, family oriented women I have ever lived among.Age differences are not much of a problem in the Philippines. As a rule, Filipinas stay married until the husband throws her out. While a Vice-Consul in Manila, I approved visas for brides 50+ years younger than their American husbands.For men who get pensions or Social Security, I would mull over retiring in the Philippines with a young wife. Immigration goes both ways. A "fixed income" that barely covers living expenses can offer a incredibly secure way of life in many countries.Era of International Dating:For American men, you are nearing the conclusion of the golden age for marriage and family.You will by no means have a higher place in the minds of international brides to be.International travel will never be this cheap again.For the reasons brought up, you will never be able to be a magnet for women of existing mail order bride excellence ever again.Before governments as well as busybodies once again interfere in the course of love, marriage, and family, seize your wonderful mail order wife.Dating, romance, and marriage have changed forever.
About the Author
You can begin your search for the perfect bride on Russian Mail Order Wife.For a huge resource of U.S. and international dating sites, visit DatingDirectoryOnline - http://datingdirectoryonline.com Charles Lamm is a former Vice-Consul in Seoul and Manila, retired immigration attorney, and writer now living in Florida. - http://internetmadmen.com

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